A bride who was paralyzed from the neck down when she was pushed into a pool at her own bachelorette party has opened up about her sex life with the husband who has stood by her since the freak accident. Rachelle Friedman Chapman, 29, from Raleigh, North Carolina, was scared she would never have a normal sex life again after the incident before her wedding in left her as a quadriplegic. Is it going to feel like nothing for me? Scroll down for video. Rachelle Friedman Chapman, pictured with husband Chris and daughter Kaylee, who she had via surrogate, says that sexual sensation and function is so important, that most people confined to wheelchairs would choose that over being able to walk again.