Post comment as click to select: A good women likes to please her man, just as, hopefully a good man takes care of his gal. But it did show people talking rationally about and enjoying anal sex. No, I'm not suggesting you get her drunk and sloppy, that won't work well it might! A drink or two can really help. But unless you both work in an oil factory, they don't work well. Try it — and let me know how you make out or any suggestions you may have for me!