Also, I think that you should be aware that many cultures bathe together as a family. Especially since this is a 3 year old toddler, not a teenager! Why Americans feel this insane modesty and shame about the human body baffles me. My husband bathes with our 5 year old daughter all the time. What's cute at five is deviant in just a few years. What is wrong with this culture? It is a normal cultural practice held all over the world.