I was crying with the pain and humiliation of it all. Reluctant Wife Takes Control Reluctant wife discovers advantage of male chastity. It was not only a humiliating sissy version of a beautiful wedding gown; it was its very own bondage suit of virginal white satin! Finally Connie came out, wearing jeans, sandals and a cotton blouse. I found that Connie hadn't even encrypted the data I sought, thinking that I would never learn it was there, nor ever be able to get up the stairs to access it. Even now, I noted, I was not in charge, but I didn't care.